CHILDISH HABITS OF AN IMMATURE WIFE... 1. GOING TO SLEEP IN KIDS' OR SPARE BEDROOM OR SITTING ROOM WHEN THE COUPLE HAVE A MISUNDERSTANDING: This is a sign of avoidance and unwillingness to resolve conflicts. A mature partner would stay and work through the issue, rather than running away from it. childish behavior. 2. TELLING HER HUSBAND HE IS NOT MAN ENOUGH: This is a form of emotional abuse and undermines the partner's self-esteem. A mature partner would communicate constructively about issues without personal attacks. Very few men can survive this injury, yes very few men! 3. "THERE ARE MANY MEN OUT THERE WHO CAN MARRY ME WHEN I LEAVE THIS MARRIAGE": This is a threat and a form of emotional blackmail. A mature partner would address problems in the relationship directly and work towards a solution, and she has forgotten that many single mum and unmarried women are outside there, and the queue is long. 4. BEING QUICK TO GET ANGRY ABOUT EVERYTHING: Excessive anger and overreaction to minor issues is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would respond with more patience and understanding. 5. CAN'T JUST FORGIVE, KEEPS HURTS HER HEART: Holding onto grudges and resentment is a barrier to healthy conflict resolution. A mature partner would be able to forgive and move forward. 6. ALWAYS BEING RIGHT , UNABLE TO ADMIT BEING WRONG : Lack of humility and unwillingness to compromise is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would be open to different perspectives and willing to acknowledge their own mistakes. 7. LOVING PARENTS AND SIBLINGS MORE THAN SPOUSE: This indicates a lack of emotional investment in the marriage and a failure to prioritize the spousal relationship. 8. FEELING ENTITLED TO EVERYTHING: A sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would have a more balanced view of the give and take in a relationship. #boychildadvocate #GrowUpLadies

DEAR GENTLEMEN, DON’T MARRY JUST ANY WOMAN, MARRY A WOMAN WITH COMMON SENSE. 1. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that respect in marriage is mutual, not one-sided. 2. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that you are not an ATM machine, and providing for the family is a shared responsibility when necessary. 3. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that love is not just about what she can receive but also what she can give. 4. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that being a man does not mean you don’t have emotions and that your struggles and mental health matter too. 5. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that submission does not mean slavery, and partnership does not mean control. 6. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that when you are tired or stressed, she should also be willing to support, whether by cooking, making things easier, or simply being considerate. 7. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that intimacy is not a weapon for manipulation or punishment but an expression of love that should be mutual and consensual. 8. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that disagreements are normal but should be handled with maturity, not silent treatment, disrespect, or emotional manipulation. 9. Marry a woman who has sense enough to know that your dreams and aspirations matter just as much as hers and that marriage should be a place of support, not competition. 10. Marry a woman who loves your soul, not just your status, money, or what she can gain. Marry a woman who enjoys talking to you, not just demanding from you. May you not miss it in marriage. #boychildadvocate #Wisewords

The son: Mom, look at this woman! She's exactly the kind of woman I want to marry! She's gorgeous! 😍 The mother (smiling softly): My son, I understand that you are attracted to her beauty, but let me give you a piece of advice: beauty alone is not enough to build a life as a couple. The son (intrigued): Why, Mom? A beautiful woman like her would make me so happy. The mother (serious but caring): My son, a woman may be beautiful in the eyes of all, but true beauty, the one that lasts, is found in her heart and in her character. Look for a woman who will respect you, who will know how to accompany you in the trials of life and who will support you in your dreams. The son (thinking): But mom, if she's pretty and has a good character, why not? The mother (with a knowing smile): Of course, it is possible, my son. But remember that the ideal woman is not the one who attracts everyone's attention, but the one who devotes herself to you, who will make you grow, and who will bring you peace. Do not trust only appearances, because they fade with time. Look for the one who will make your soul happy, not just your eyes. The son (smiling shyly): I think I understand, Mom. Thanks for your advice… I'll think more before making a choice. The mother (placing her hand on his shoulder): Take your time, my son. True love is often found where you least expect it. And above all, choose the one who will make you a better man. Moral : Don't judge by appearances alone, because the true value of a person is found in their heart, their character and their ability to accompany you through the ups and downs of life. #wisewords #boychildadvocate

Wisdom For Married Women... 1. A First Class degree won't make you a first class wife, rather, your submission and respect will. 2. The woman who respects her husband is the best wife anyone would ever have. 3. Your character and attitude will go a long way in determining whether your husband will wish he never regret getting married to you. 4. To be a great wife, you need more anger management skills than nagging skills. 5. Be a leader at work or anywhere else, but be a companion at home... it's wisdom. 6. Don't compete with your husband, complement him. 7. Your strength is in humility and submission, not in strife and contention. 8. Be tender, every man respect a tender woman but firm. 9. Never punish your husband by starving him of food or sex, he may be forced to get it outside. 10. There is nothing wrong in accepting that you are wrong when you are wrong. 11. Prepare to forgive your husband if he wrongs you. For a forgiving wife is better than a vengeful wife. 12. Make a decision to be a good wife, you will need it in the long run. #boychildadvocate #everyonehighlightsfollowers #wisewords